My deepest condolances to your family on this loss. It is so hard to loose someone so young, and so unexpected. I congratulate you on your great way of helping the healing by just getting away from it for a while. There is so much to do after a death with paperwork, belongings and all the legal stuff that getting away to recharge was just the thing. We went through a similar thing with my husband's sister a couple of years ago. Their mother is elderly and she had just the two children, so it fell on my husband and I to do everything. (She was 47 and never married) We, thankfully, had our motorhome and could escape for recharging, too. It does help!