Well darn, I was on this site looking who to contact as this will be our first winter being a snowbird. In the most recent FMCA magazine one of the benefits lists mail forwarding - guess that needs to be updated!
After much research - we are now towing a Honda CRV. When we had our tow hitch put on the guy at the shop said - this is a great car, this is what the race car drivers tow behind their RV's. And being from Indianapolis - that made sense to us